I feel like when a guy is using women for sex people just shake their heads in judgement and maybe call him a dickhead but if a woman uses a man for money oooooh everyone is up in arms you gold digging whore bitch slut I hope you fucking burn in hell. Like wtf why can't we all use each other happily?
I can have sex anytime I want but I can't have money anytime I want so why not use a guy for what I really want? Just as a guy uses girls for what he really wants, intercourse.
Most Helpful Guy
In the last 100 years women have taught and died for their rites and equality.
For me as a man this meant in every aspect of life not just in the work place and socially but in the bedroom too.
It's a little upsetting and some what demeaning to hear young woman saying the things you say. Having sex with men for money takes you way back beyond what those women died for.
I agree men and women should have sex on equal standing both giving and receiving pleasure equally. Caring about the other person s pleasure.
However to have sex trying to extract money from a guy is deeply manipulative and what most guys would despise in a woman. So in trying to achieve what you are you'll only make your situation as a woman worse.
I suspect it's got a lot to do with the the unfortunate type of male company you keep. That has helped shape your opinion of men.
Well were not all like that.
Sex for some of us is about giving pleasure seeing the pleasure give in a woman's eyes and body. Watch her writhing in ecstasy from my efforts.
After giving such pleasure I could and would never say " did you enjoy that can you lend me some money "1
Most Helpful Girl
Up until about 30 years ago women had no choice but to use men for money... women were kept from pursuing decent jobs and educations that would earn them a living themselves. You didn't really marry for love, you married for survival... a man with a decent salary was a way out of your parents' home and a way to make sure any children you wanted had food on the table.
Even though women are now more independent I think seeing men as banks has persisted, because to be totally honest a lot of women don't really like men, and it's sorta of like.. you treat US like s***, disrespect us, try to force us into submission to get the sexual services you want... so fine, we'll take your damn money.1