I feel like when a guy is using women for sex people just shake their heads in judgement and maybe call him a dickhead but if a woman uses a man for money oooooh everyone is up in arms you gold digging whore bitch slut I hope you fucking burn in hell. Like wtf why can't we all use each other happily? I can have sex anytime I want but I can't have money anytime I want so why not use a guy for what I really want? Just as a guy uses girls for what he really wants, intercourse.
In the last 100 years women have taught and died for their rites and equality. For me as a man this meant in every aspect of life not just in the work place and socially but in the bedroom too. It's a little upsetting and some what demeaning to hear young woman saying the things you say. Having sex with men for money takes you way back beyond what those women died for. I agree men and women should have sex on equal standing both giving and receiving pleasure equally. Caring about the other person s pleasure.
However to have sex trying to extract money from a guy is deeply manipulative and what most guys would despise in a woman. So in trying to achieve what you are you'll only make your situation as a woman worse. I suspect it's got a lot to do with the the unfortunate type of male company you keep. That has helped shape your opinion of men. Well were not all like that. Sex for some of us is about giving pleasure seeing the pleasure give in a woman's eyes and body. Watch her writhing in ecstasy from my efforts.
After giving such pleasure I could and would never say " did you enjoy that can you lend me some money "
Up until about 30 years ago women had no choice but to use men for money... women were kept from pursuing decent jobs and educations that would earn them a living themselves. You didn't really marry for love, you married for survival... a man with a decent salary was a way out of your parents' home and a way to make sure any children you wanted had food on the table.
Even though women are now more independent I think seeing men as banks has persisted, because to be totally honest a lot of women don't really like men, and it's sorta of like.. you treat US like s***, disrespect us, try to force us into submission to get the sexual services you want... so fine, we'll take your damn money.
Because its wrong for a guy to use a woman for sex and so to by extention is a woman using a guy for money. If your talking about a guy only haveing sex with women with no intent on a relationship then he isn't using her she is choosing to have sex with him without any assurance of a relationship in which case no deception has taken place. If you are talking about actively telling a man you want his money and are willing to be his sugar baby then that would be exceptable as you where upfront about it and their where no deceptions, otherwise its wrong. Not all men use women for sex and in fact few actually do so that is also something to take into account.
Not all guys use women for sex.. I do not.. but many men do.. and if the girl knows the guy she is with is doing this.. I then say yes by all means use him for his money as it would be a fair trade off.. but he would only expect more from the women now if she did this.. or he would just throw it in her face and use that as ammunition when he got all huffy.. just to get more of what he wants.. those guys and many are out there like that have no respect for the women.. it is all about them
Getting money in return for sex... that kinda sounds like prostitution. There's nothing wrong for women to use men for sex, either way around is alright. But when money is involved, it gets complicated.
The whole world revolves on sex and money and people who regurgitate preordained, prepackaged beliefs and hand out biased judgements like free condoms at an STD clinic need to STFU and stop confusing other people about their natural states of being.
Will you be happy if Men use women for money, and women use men for sex... How can someone use someone for sex? Its mutual love. And stop talking as if women dont enjoy sex and do it only to make men happy.
You do realize that nearly every women uses guys for money to some degree. They generally date a guy who is better off, they make sure the guy pays for the dates, the guy buys more expensive gifts , etc.
What's your price? 😏
I guess it's fine if you specifically use the guys for money that are using girls for money. That's not always the case.
Why do people hold different standards to this? Guys work hard for their money. You were just born with a pussy and are lucky your parents hooked up with each other at exactly the right time to produce your looks. Those guys should really be paying them if anyone, huh?
You have a really fucked up way of thinking. Get a job and make your own money, don't rely on a man for that. I'm be ashamed to think the way you do, that I only want a man for his money. No thank you, I will provide for myself.. I'm not a gold digger
I'm 22 years old and I am looking to use a guy for money. I have done it before but I'm aiming for richer guys. Guys always want young girls how is that a girls fault? I do not have sex with guys I use for money but guys think it's ok to use women for sex yet they get mad when a woman gets money out of a relationship. That's what I want. It's not my fault guys are gullible as fuck. It's not my fault men think With their dick
I don't want to depend on a guy, so I work for my money. But at the same time, I don't like being used for sex. This is why I establish my intentions, and let them know I do not do casual sex. I date, and if it goes well to relationship status, then I'll probably sleep with him. If the guy doesn't want to wait that long, he can move on to someone else like I will.
Because some guys are hypocrites and can't get hot girls for being a broke loser
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