So I have a question people. I have this girl where I've been flirting with for over a month. I've send her some indirect messages, with sarcasm and all that. We went out and we were talking about that, but she said she likes people to be direct with her. SO, I am 60% sure that Im friendzoned. IF I try to kiss her, 2 things can happen. She can kiss back, or lean backwards. INCCASE she leans backwards, should i try again, ask her or what? If she still doesn't want, our friendship will be ruined? I really won't stay just friends with a girl who just rejected my kiss. So, people please give me opinions! about if the firndship will be ruined, and my attitude if its okay or not. thanks!
don't try to kiss her just yet. You need to find out how she feels about you so get one of your friends to get one of her friends to see what she thinks of you and then you can make the right decision. don't tell her without being sure because if she's not into you that will make things awkward and it will weird out your 'friendship'.
Also friend zone is used when you've taken too long to make a move. we all know it.
What is wrong with people these days. Why do they take text messages more seriously over real life interactions. If she said she likes people to be direct I guess she means that if you have something in your mind, even if it is about her, you should say it straight. Keep your lips off her. You are not even sure if she would accept you. So first talk it out. If you are independent and confident take the tougher decision. But if you are faint hearted just walk away. No shame in saving your sanity by giving up.
What do you actually want from her friendship or relationship? Is a relationship worth ruining a friendship. If it were me id pursue a romantic relationship with a girl I liked rather than a friendship and have done in the past and didn't always work out but I wasn't going to spend years being a girl's friend as different boyfriends came and went while I sat on the sidelines praying she'd notice me one day and see what a great guy I am, no i have enough friends. My advice is to go big or go home, go for it as life is too short to waste. If she says she only sees you as a friend start slowly distancing yourself from her and make sure any time you do a favour or help her out of a tough spot she does the same for you.