I went to a store and was extremely attracted to the employee, he was gorgeous and I've been told that I'm extremely pretty but I'm kind of fat/chubby... my friend gave him my number and he smiled and giggled in a cute little shy boy way. It's been two days since and I'm getting really sad because he hasn't called or texted me yet... do you think he will? guys, how long do you wait till you call a girl?
Please help me, he didn't seem like a player or a man whore... he seemed like a really nice cute guy.
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Generally, the rules of the "waiting game" suggest that a man or woman wait about three days before calling so they don't seem too desperate--which is stupid, if you ask me, but that's the way some people operate. Your fella might just be one of them, so give it another day or so to see if he'll give you a ring.
If he doesn't, don't take it personally; if he's as shy as you say he seems, it's possible he doesn't have the nerve to call up a woman he doesn't know very well, regardless of how attracted he may be to you. And then, of course, he may simply not be interested in dating anyone right now, or perhaps he only dates within his established social circle. You never can tell with these things.
At any rate, best of luck to you! :)2