I've been dating this guy for almost 2 months now and i really like him, and I also love him so much. I feel like he's the one for me, but I also maybe am starting to like this other guy who I'm just friends with. I went to his house (my friend) today and nothing happened obviously because I wouldn't cheat but I found myself starting to develop a small crush. Is this normal? Is it cheating to like someone else?
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Most Helpful Guy
No, not at all. This is definitely not normal. It's just not possible, you have dated a guy and you say you like him, you even said you love him, so how can some other guy come into the picture?
If this is what is happening to you, means that you actually don't love the guy you are dating or you yourself were not sure about your feelings for the guy you are dating with.
Well, it's not cheating to like someone else, but this I would say is one of the steps which might lead to something big as cheating.
I mean this is how it all starts, first you start liking someone else while being in a relationship and then that feeling magnifies and develops into a strong attraction, after that you can stop thinking about that person, after that you'll feel like visiting that person often, talk to them more often than the one you love. In the final step it ends in cheating.
Hence it all starts from the phase of "liking someone else". Hence I would say you need to get your emotions, feelings into control, you need to be clear as to what you want, because if you don't then yes one day it might lead to cheating, I am not saying it will happen in your case, but it can become a possibility if you don't control your feelings/emotions0
Most Helpful Girl
It's not cheating as long as you don't act on it. It's just human nature to have a crush on someone.1