If certain men are only meeting women for one night stands, then by all means. But bars don't really seem to be a great place to quality women to spend time with long-term. First, women's guard are pretty high up. They are pickier on what type of guy is hitting on them. Second, their confidence skyrocketed due to their sexy outfits at bars. All the male admirers sure have some help on that as well. Thus, they are much more difficult to approach. Third, bars tend to be very loud. They are definitely not an effective setting to have a meaningful conversation. I am sure there are more disadvantages with meeting women at bars.
Despite all the odds at meeting quality women at bars, why is society still advising to meet women there? I have friends who are trying to take me to bars to find a girlfriend, even though I don't drink because I can't handle alcohol. Lame, I know.
Most Helpful Girl
... because not all men are looking for women to start relationships with. Also, it's not like you have zero chance of meeting such a girl at a bar. No place will offer you a 100% success rate of meeting a 'wholesome' girl there so... the more places you look, the more the odds will be swayed in your favour.1
Most Helpful Guy
They probably want you to go to the bar with them to give them company or because they were influenced to believe bars are the best place to meet women from cultural influence. I agree with your reasons why bars aren't a good place to meet women. I'd also say the girls there tend to be more into partying and casual sex too. I would personally not look for a girl at a bar.0