I am 17 and I go to Duke University. My boyfriend plays basketball for the Blue Devils. He cheats on me with A LOT of girls, but he always buys me stuff and takes me places when he does. There's this guy who I like and I wanna experience him. Do you think my boyfriend will get mad if I sleep with him? I'm scared to ask him, because he might break up with me.
- Yes, he will be madVote A
- He will be okay with itVote B
Most Helpful Guy
What are you? dull in the head? he CHEATS on you!! and you know it and are worried he would be mad?
look at it this way, he is having his fun, have yours... or
if you are afraid to lose him because of all the "perks"... still have your fun.
you obviously don't like him cheating... but you won't leave because of the other perks you get from him...(victim's dilemma) .. thats why i say... Do what you want... and if he finds out... let him know he started it, so he can't complain...0
Most Helpful Girl
Men think they can cheat and it's fine. But my GOD, if you want to see a man get pissed and dump you quicker than anything, then you cheat on him. It doesn't matter if he cheats on YOU constantly, he will dump you.
With that said, why are you monogamous with him? Fuck THAT! You are young, go date around. You can do what he does and not tell him about it. Why would you even tell him about it unless you want to start a fight or get dumped? No, do not ask him about it unless you want to get dumped. If he's using you as a part time girlfriend and you want to use him as a part time boyfriend, just do it. Don't be his loyal girlfriend while he runs around on you. Respect yourself!!! Id honestly say end it completely but you have perks that you like I guess.0
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