.I had a boyfriend for almost 2 years everything was fine and then he broke up with me he said that he needed time for himself, so we broke up it was really hard for me because I really cared for him.He broke up with me in April and in July he started texting me and then calling me and since the we been hanging out. but like in Oct he knew he was being different and he wasn't my boyfriend we are just hanging out. But I asked if he had another girl to be honest with me and he said yea.But stupid me is still hanging out with him. He does hang out with me more but when he hangs out with her I get so mad. Why am I doing this, other than I'm stupid.Why is he doing this?
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YOU guys broke up - right?
Of course there will be lingering feelings, & you do not HAVE to throw those away.. You do not even HAVE to stop seeing him, & one day you may even reunite...
But for NOW, you guys are NOT TOGETHER.
You have to treat yourself & him, like that. Respect him seeing someone else, irregardless of what you think of her ( Imagine if there wee some ex, lurking in the back ground when you were with him.. You probably would NOT like that.)
So, give ihm space, think of him AS A FRIEND , DO NOT THINK ABOUT HER IN ANY WAY AT ALL, & go be happy with stuff you like to do, & or people you like to do it WITH.