I gave a guy my number and he DID Not call me. After he got my number he texted me for a day. Talking about hanging out and stuff. Next day. no texts. day after. no text. weekend comes up he says he lost his phone. Didn't want me to think he was a d*** the only way he had my number was in his phone. but after that he did not text me. I went ahead and texted him. asking him why he asked for number if he was going to talk to me. He says its because I'm to young for him were only 3 years apart. I think its an excuse. Then he says he wants to keep talking to me. 2 days later. he has not contacted me at all. Anyways, I'm tripping over this. The whole time he's had my # he hasn't called. just text. What's up with this? obviously he wasn't interested how do I avoid this from happening again? why do guys do this?
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If you don't like him all that much and you don't think he's interested then forget about him completely.
If you like him and want to keep trying despite him maybe not being interested, call him up.
He may be too nervous to call you or wants you to call or indeed may be uninterested, but you won't really know if you don't call.
1) Don't call, still like him, it's gonna bug you until you either call or forget about him, and by then it'll be really really awkward.
2) Call, maybe a tad awkward, but you are good at conversation and he seems to actually like you and you two set up a time to date/get together/hang out. You won't have to wonder if he liked your or not, and if he doesn't like you it will be made clear in the phone call.
Your best option then is just to call him and find out!