We have ONLY been On a couple of dates, he texts a lot when we do so in these past 3 months, But he takes long To ask me out, But I don't know if he is lacking interest, still hurt from ex girlfriend cheating, wants To see me interested... etc. I think he isn't ready To jump into a relationship as he mentioned that On our first date But We converse a lot, have Good Connection, never a dull moment.
He said he wouldn't ask me out if he didn't want to so Im glad To hear... But i have not reached out To him because I feel that he recently is holding back. I Really like him and feel We can have something Good, i know it takes two, is there a way To at least figure out what he wants without being pushy?
I'd hate to walk away from the good I saw in all this.
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i would tell him you know he is having a hard time totally moving on from the pain caused in his last relationship. ask him if there is anything you can do to help him over come it and move on. because you see him as a great guy with a lot a lot of things going for him. also ask him about his hopes and dreams about the future. if he askes why you asked just tell him you are trying to figure out how you can fit in to them. then tell him what you like so much about him and how he make you feel.1