Many express that if you just met a person and dated for a month that to say, I love you despite the strong feelings you may have for that person that it will be too much too soon. Some express that the the L word should not be used at all until after 3-6 months, and the woman should be the first to say it...
Tell me what you think? Is there a time limit for using the L word?
Use the L word as soon as you feel it
74% (39)69% (18)72% (57)Vote
Use the L word after 3-6 months despite your feelings
13% (7)15% (4)14% (11)Vote
Let her say the L word first no matter the timeline
2% (1)12% (3)5% (4)Vote
Let him say the L word first no matter the timeline
If you met someone and you think you are inlove with them, it is not love what you are actually feeling but infatuation of that person. Psychology says that if you still feel the same way about a person 4 months after meeting them (or being "in love" with them), then you've crossed to the love section. I can then see why they say wait 3-6 months... To be honest, I never even have thought about that. when to tell someone I love them... but then again, I dont think I was ever the first to tell my exes I loved them. But I think when you feel it and have had that feeling for a few months (after 4) that you're sure, it is a sure bet you are IN LOVE with that person... but maybe do not LOVE them as yet. There is a difference between loving someone and being in love with someone. The latter is infatuation, the first is real love <3 and what will get you through the ups and down of life and your relationship. Hope that helps! :)
I voted A but I do think that it's too early to say it very early on, as you really haven't gotten the chance to know the person well enough to actually LOVE them at one or two months in. It's infatuation at that stage.
okay, so i literally have been asking this for a good month lol. so me and my boyfriend have been dating for four months. i started feeling it at around two two and a half months but i thought it was too soon. i finally told him this week and he expressed it back i guess its really your choice because its your feelings and if they dont feel the same right away you can't get upset but say it when you feel ready
Don't force yourself to say it within a certain time frame. Say it when you mean it.
Think before you say. If you have a girlfriend and you are planning that next time you see her you will tell her those 3 words for the first time. Make sure you really mean it. Some guys confuse the "I love you'' to the "I like you'' and that is messed up because they are totally different. MAKE SURE you MEAN IT with the bottom deepest of your heart..
Not too soon. It depend how much you see the person but I ll said around 2-3 month if you see the person often. Multiple time a week.
If you feel it in only a few weeks - it's infatuation and lust at that point.