So I'm a brown guy, and I have a hard time finding my self attracted to brown girls. Especially if they are Punjabi like me. I find my self most attracted to white girls. Is this wrong? Have I been brainwashed by post colonial mentality to hate my own race. Here is where it gets strange, I find brown girls less attractive partially because the way a lot of them act. I know I'm stereo typing, but I usually just don't have a lot in common with them or much chemistry at all. I'm into "white people things" so white girls tend to have things in common with me. I've had brown girls tell me that I act like a white guy because of things like Music taste, the way I dress and my personality over all. The connection between being white and acting the way I do is arbitrary. But the stereotype goes that if you have game, and are well spoken, your white washed and brown guys don't act like that. I am very confused.
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry, but what are 'white people things'?1
Most Helpful Guy
I feel like a lot of "brown" guys like white girls, I dont really understand why they aren't that great. I'm white and I've gone out with my fair share of white girls and they really aren't that special. Most of them you will find are more emotionally draining then women of other races, and at least in my experience they dont take suggestions well. For instance "Hey honey I really appreciate that you are trying to dress up, but wearing a mini skirt to my brother's graduation really isn't appropriate"- her "You can't tell me how to dress, I'll dress however I want" - me *facepalm*
You get a lot of situations like that which are kind of frustrating. Of course really americanized Asian girls and black girls will do the same so its just a cultural thing I suppose, since most white girls are from the west though most of them have this attitude. I dont understand why you think white girls are so great though, they really aren't all they are cracked up to be. I think you are probably being influenced by media or word of mouth, have you had contact with many white girls? Half of them will make you want to vomit and the other half are nice girls that are either taken in a relationship or for some reason not dateable.0