yeah. I 'confessed' how I felt to the guy who's my boyfriend. I remember it pretty crystal clear. I was super nervous... wouldn't have gone through with it if I didn't receive a total pep-talk from a friend right before meeting with him. I went about telling him in the most awkward way.
He technically told me first, a few months before. Which I declined because I just wasn't there yet, or simply hadn't realized it. I told him I wanted to talk, then asked him if he remembered what he'd asked me around September. He said no, that he'd asked me several things. So after beating around the bush a bit, I finally asked him straight up if he'd consider being with me as an option still. That I had feelings for him, and wanted to know where he stood in that respect.
Every relationship I've ever been in I've made the first move, but only once did I ever have feelings strong enough beforehand to confess to someone how I felt to someone after I realized how I felt. But I go and do what I need to, sometimes it leads me to ruin, sometimes to love and sometimes down paths I would have never expected.
Yes, I did. I confessed to my friend who I used to have a crush on (it had died down a long time before this) and it turns out she has a boyfriend. Apparently he didn't like it (even though it was obvious I liked her) and decided he didn't want me near her eventually. Sadly we're no longer friends.
lol i have. i really don't want to be the first one to do it again, although if i ever want to end up with the guy i've had my eye on, i think that's my only choice -.-
I'm unusually calm in those moments, but it hits me later, like a few hours after i did it. it's nerve wracking but if you're willing to take that step for someone, suddenly your own dignity doesn't seem so important...