a guy who genuinely likes you and is going for the im a man so won't get sweet n soppy and instead ill be overly forward and crude approach or he just wants you for sex... the hard part is trying to figure out which one he is..
what i suggest is going on dates with him... avoiding any talk of sex or innuendos with him... and see whether or not when you are with him how his chat changes on each date with you... if he constantly keeps being sexual then he is after one thing from you... if he begins to soften and drop his macho gaurd and begins to talk to you like a man who cares for girl... sweet things... soft and attentive and other mushy stuff there is a good chance the initial question was just male bravado of some sort...
so short version... go on dates if you like him... swerve any sexual talk... and see if he follows suit and talks normally and attentive or if he continues to be sexual to gauge whether or not he is genuinely into you or looking for sex.
you know sweets, you should've written d*ck instead of b***r XD lol no biggie. depends, if he's not your boyfriend, i'd kick him in the balls. if he is your boyfriend, you could just tell him i guess? unless you're too young lol
You're under 18. I'm only recently 18 but let me say. No sex before you're 18. He's obviously a horny guy. Most of us teen guys are. But he isn't respecting you by asking that. My girlfriend and I waited 6 months before I even touched her breast for a few quick seconds outside her shirt and then was too nervous to do it again. So him already giving you this talk is crazy. I'd wear a brass knuckle and break his nose personally.