i know it is wrong actually, but i went to a party and did some slight freak dancing with a few guys & my boyfriend was at the party, he was just with his friends. one of his friends saw me and told him. now my boyfriend is mad/dissapointed and a little upset with me for doing that. he told me that he did not dance with not one girl when he got pulled to dance numerous times and expected me to do the same. i tried telling him it was all for fun and i wasn't dancing with guys the whole night, it was just hard to say no cause guys were grabbing me left and right. we talked about it a little but he was still upset. he hasn't talked to me all day today. should i hit him up or wait till he acknowledges me. i just dont want him to be dissapointed anymore.
i told him i will never do it again knowing that this is something that severely upsets him and all he says is "i don't believe you"
I find it wrong only cause he was also in the party. If I wasn't up for some partying and my girlfriend was and knew there would be dancing the. I wouldn't have gotten mad as long as nothing more than dancing happened. If I were there then I'd be mad and upset cause she could've just danced with me...
It's not morally wrong. Sounds like you got tired of being pulled so you gave in. You probably enjoyed it cause who doesn't enjoy that kind of attention from the opposite sex. The question of it being wrong is more about the context of your own relationship. Each relation sort of forms it's own morals and ethics. Sounds like if you want this guy to stick around you should let him have you all to himself.
"it was just hard to say no cause guys were grabbing me left and right."
Yet you somehow want him to believe you won't do it again after you've shown such poor resolve? "I couldn't say no, they asked me" is about the poorest excuse you could give your partner. What do you think will be on his mind next time you go to a party without him? How could you trust someone that shows 0 ability to say no for themselves?
Maybe you are still naive and need to learn a few thing. Who knows maybe you won't do it again.