All these girls demanding commitment from a man: are you virgins? Do you not think it is damn right hypocritical to demand a man must be totally virtuous and pursue a relationship with the mythical ' one ' when we all know that you've all been around the block a few times yourselves? How do you expect the type of man that you've disregarded most of your life to suddenly turn around and worship your feet because you've decided that maybe, just maybe he is good enough for you to ' settle ' down with and that he should be appreciative that you even consider him? How do you expect men to respect you when you don't respect yourselves?
We all want & deserve grace and respect, no matter how bad we've been, unwise or poor shoppers. We need that in order to invest more in ourselves and in others. If you're not getting that, then keep shopping for The One, for she does exist out there, a perfect match for you... even though at times this match is/seems fleeting. Once you found a beachhead, it can be like planting a seed and cultivating it so it becomes permanent... regardless of past.
No I'm not a virgin, but neither have I been "around the block a few times". Nor do I expect my future partner to be a virgin or 100% virtuous. I don't expect anyone to worship me or appreciate me. I don't expect respect, I earn it. As for self-respect, I have plenty of it.
I simply answer it by Yes. I'm a virgin. The extreme virgin type lol no kiss not even holding hands haha! And yes I expect to be committed, it's the least of things. Although I would also prefer him to be Virgin I might make some exceptions... Specially if he wasn't a fuckboy.
I've heard a lot of arguments saying that commitment is a way to make sure they don't have another option, so they can 'win' when something happens. I personally think commitment grows more important the longer you're with someone, but at the same time it's harder to have commitment when you're with someone for so long, since for a lot of people, it gets boring. Does being a virgin really matter though? If these girls/boys have had previous relationships, it'd be very selfish to ask for the other to be virgin, hypocritical even.
Well, I am a virgin but even if I was not I would still expect commitment. I also think that the guy I am with should expect commitment from me, whether he be or virgin or not. I see no hypocrisy in my views on this.
I am a virgin. It's not easy to be celibate sometimes, but I still choose to do it (I have my own reasons for this, I'm not religious). So yeah. I'm capable of commitment and I expect the same in return.
you dont get it, when it comes to commitment , the ones who used her won't take her shit, they know she is just a slut, they won't treat her like a human so she turn to that guy , he would eventually treat her nice, and be a pussy