My ex and I broke up in 2012 all the sudden he texts me out of the blue. By the way he's still together with this girl, he claims he still has feelings for me and wants to have sex. He wants to meet up with me to see if he likes me or if it's just lust he claims he isn't happy with her. He lives with her. He has history cheating. Should I see him?
Letting an ex cheat on his existing girlfriend with you to help him decide if he still has feelings for you or not sounds really weak on the part of any woman who consents. Just my two cents, but I don't think any self-respecting woman should agree to this.
You're practically letting him get away with having sex with two different women at one time while getting into the middle of an existing relationship, and all to just let him test how he feels about you.
It's up to you but I think it's pretty horrible to agree.
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No no no. Don't see him. You dont want him to cheat on her. And it sounds like he's using you.. sounds like he wanted sex and decided to text you out of no where to see if you were willing, and is backing it up by saying he. might. have feelings for you, but he won't know until after?
i will be honest here, seen this type of crappy guys everywhere. He just wants to take advantage of you the way you are have sex and then leave you and go back to him. how can you trust a guy who is cheating with his current girlfriend and telling you this. i prefer you say this to his girlfriend.
Just wait for the time being a guy will co em to your life no just ur ex a much better guy