So just on Thursday I was at work at my job which is hot topic. I was wearing jeans and my net top and a green bra since it was saint Patrick's day... I got off of work and went to his place and he got really snippy about my outfit saying "they let you wear that at hot topic" and stuff about how I looked like a stripper or Hooker... It never bothered him before on how I dressed when we were just friends with benefits... So why is he being so mean about it now... I feel like in ways he's trying to change who I am... This is basically what I was wearing except it was a green bra no hat and my hair is blond now
I'M TRYING TO FIGURE OUT WHY my boyfriend was so hostile in his wording and why he said what he did when HE NEVER cared before.
I don't DRESS this way everyday. Its ONCE in a blue moon.
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When you were just friends with benefits, he probably didn't care about other guys. But now that you're together, he's obviously "worried" about how other guys see you and how you present yourself to them.
I personally wouldn't be caught dead in a top like that. Looks like lingerie, something you'd only wear in the bedroom. Inappropriate to wear in public in my opinion. But you work at hot topic so no surprise there, really...
Take his views into consideration, but ultimately it's your choice to dress however you want.0