First of all, I'm really new to tinder and I was a bit dumb in this story.
I met this guy on Tinder, and we talked a little bit. He found out that I liked Star Wars and got excited. Then he found out I used to coach karate and got really excited. He then got a bit creepy and said that he finds it so hot when girls do martial arts and thinks I would look really hot in a karate outfit. I was like.. okayyyyyyy and didn't reply.
Then he said "I'm sorry if that was too forward, just unmatch me if I've blown it." I didn't unmatch him, instead I told him that I was thinking about getting back with my ex and I didn't want to talk to anyone until I've sorted it out. I don't know why I said that but I did. He said okay, but could he have my number. I gave it to him ;_;
An hour later he texts me and says "it feels weird not talking to you." We literally talked for half an hour tops. Wtf? So I unmatch the guy and delete tinder completely.
A few weeks later he finds me on facebook through my number (I didn't KNOW YOU COULD DO THAT) and he asks me if we could just be friends since I'm clearly not interested.
It doesn't sound THAT BAD. Why would you give him your number if you didn't want to talk to him anymore? It sounds like you should have been more direct about it. Also something to take away from this is that facebook is fucked up and exposes your information to the world very easily.
Sounds creepy to me. Good thing you know karate. Be alert, but don't be scared. Strange, I was actually turned off by some girl who was into mixed martial arts and weaponry thinking I would never want to piss her off! lol
All of your info is online. If that doesn't creep you out enough someone can find your address, phone number, family history, social medias, and civil history just by looking up our name on a website like whitepages
So if you talked to him that long why did you unmatch him?
I don't think you can find someone through facebook using a phone number , its possible he found you somewhere else or some other way though. he's likely found and looked at all your social media pages by now ( twitter , instagram etc ) , keep that in mind when posting things.
as for the guy , he might just be really desperate , I don't know , maybe he felt a connection , maybe he wanted there to be a connection , is he too interested maybe , I'd play it cautious for time being and maybe try and get to know him a bit more and see if he actually is half normal and wants to date people or not