I'm 22 and a single Mother of a 4 year old little boy who is my entire world! I haven't been in a long term relationship since his father which ended 3 years ago. It's been so hard to find someone who truly accepts the situation. Not only am I Mother but I'm also finished college and starting my career so I am a very driven, determined, goal-oriented and independent. I work, I'm on my own, I have bills to pay etc, I have my stuff together. Why is it so hard to find someone who can accept this and is willing to date someone who is already a mom and getting her life on track? Do guys find this too intimidating? I would really like to get some sort of an idea of what guys think of this!
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As a guy married to a younger lady who has two children already from her ex-ass-husband I can say to you that there are those of us out there that do not have an issue with a woman that has kids. I find it refreshing to see a single mom working her ass off to make a good life for her child and better herself. It speaks volumes about the type of person she is and the type of maturity that she has a grip on. I've seen a lot of younger woman who spend their time bitching about not being happy and having to work etc. They are out of touch with the real world.You're 22 and already have the level of maturity of that of a 30 year old. Your son will be a man someday because of what you are doing now. Try and find someone that's a little older. Older meaning they aren't looking to party and acting like a teenager still. Look for a "man" and not a "boy". Not making fun in anyway but very much believe that someone in your situation needs maturity and someone that will also love your little boy because he's a part of you and they love you. It's hard because time in the day is short with all that's going on. But we're out there...don't give up.0