I don't think people differ so much in standards; rather, I think just like different things.
If a guy likes thin women he doesn't have "higher" standards than a man who likes thicker women. Just different taste.
Some people are really desperate though and will date someone they don't actually care for mentally and/or physically. And some people are extremely strict about what they like and don't like. Those people are outliers.
In general, I like guys who are average in height or taller but not suuuuper tall, although I can and have been attracted to guys on the shorter side and taller as well. I like guys who are fit and muscular but not ripped, but have found guys who have a little tummy going on or guys who are really muscular attractive too. I usually find guys with darker features more attractive (skin, eyes, hair.) Again, not always. I'm crazy about full lips for some reason and can't recall getting attracted to a guy who had thin ones lol
Personality wise, I fall hard for guys who can make me laugh. Intelligence is *super* attractive. Being respectful and genuinely caring is really important to me as well. I want a guy I can have intellectual and deep/philosophical conversation with... I want a guy who actually cares about people and humanity as a whole, a guy who has empathy (guys aren't generally good with that.)
As for the job/car/money thing...
job? Yes. I'm 19, I work in a café, I don't expect nor even want a guy with an actual career yet. But I want him to have one. And a car because that shows self sufficiency or whatever.
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All I ask is that he treats me right, with respect and supports me in all that I do. Someone who isn't controlling and someone who isn't afraid to have fun and try new things. Adventurous, spontaneous and MUST have a sense of humor because I crack jokes all the time and I'm also very sarcastic. Someone who can accept me for who I am. I can be an emotional wreck at times and I can be a blunt bitch. I can also be the biggest sweetheart, it all just depends lol. Someone who also won't expect me to support them. Two out of the three boyfriend's I've had in my life I had to support financially. I have no problem picking up the bill once in awhile but I am not a personal ATM.
As for appearance, the most I really like is dark hair, colored eyes and a nice smile. I've dated guys of all body types, different jobs (some great, some not so great) and everything else.
I don't know if you would consider these high or low standards, but I'm going to say them. 😂 For personality I would like my partner to be intelligent (I hate dumb people >.>), funny (I like to joke around, so I don't want a vegetable that would just sit there like "wut?"), kind and loyal. For looks I preffer the 5'11" range (I'm okay with 5'9" too, but shorter than that nope, #sorrynotsorry), skinny (I don't like muscles.-.), darker hair and eyes (not necessarly, but I think darker hair and eyes look better on both sexes, maybe I'm just biased since I'm darker too 😂) and cute face (I'm not that drawn towards the typical "manly" type). :3
I look for a guy who is kind to everyone and is sensitive/emotional. Also, I want him to have similar beliefs and outlooks on life as myself. I also want a guy who thinks deeper about life and society and wants to do something to improve the lives of others.
Look-wise I'm attracted to guys who are short, thin, and have feminine features (although these are just added bonuses). I'm basically looking for a girl with a dick lol
I can barely fall a sleep, how tf am I ready to fall in love?😂 sigh I just want someone who accepting of all of me, the afrodite package... the whole thing! No hesitation or turn back's. The weird personality and furious attitude. Just someone nice I swear man. Idgaf about material shhhh money, car's etc etc. Man just touch my butt, let me nibble on u, buy me pizza and pound the 🐈🐈 like his last name is Mayweather😢😢 why is that so hard to ask for?😢😢
I want a guy who is understanding, and will pay attention to me. I don't like silence for days, I would like him to want to talk to me, not just at the beginning of the relationship, but through years of dating. He doesn't have to be muscular, just, average, not really skinny, or not skinny, I don't want to be bigger than him. Having a job at all is good enough. Also... he can't be a playboy. I don't want a guy who's going to run around with other women, then expect me to not be insecure. I would like to be loved. That's the most important thing. I want to be loved, and cared about. I'm really good at loving, but I have never received it in return.
I want him to be... - Funny - intelligent, Love reading & self education - best friends - Angry & Senstive - attractive eyes / wide shoulder & Arms - video gamer & watch Tv so we can match : P - personal hygiene - loyal can't handle breaking up 💐 - always honest even if it will hurt me
Smart Strong (phyically and mentally? Can keep a steady job hard work Will stand up for what he believes in Tall (over 6") athletic Nice and good with people Friendly loves to have fun and out going He drives a truck (i'm a truck type of girl) He's loves being a male and loves to do male sports He's has to be a man's man this is my ideal man
Love the same things as me, be obedient when I ask something I want him to do it. Never, never think of an another girl than me and do all he can for making me happy. Be strong and courageous with a good personality (caring, nice). I want to be his first priority.
Look, casual and sporty clothes, better if it's a bit loose with good and cool brand.
I like white man, tall, blond hair and blue eyes or just a cute Asian guy
The most important things he has to have charism. DO a sport is a bonus.