I usually give him three words responses. 😁 You?
Most Helpful Guy
I'd either want to talk about the reason or have space.2
Most Helpful Girl
First I take some time away from him to cool off and gather my thoughts a bit. Then I'll tell him what the issue I'm having is with. We then talk it out and usually it ends well; at the very least, with a compromise on new terms if it's based on a recurrent issue, which it is, 99% of the time.1