im 20 and im still single. i feel like all i attract is guys who just want sex, or nothing serious. everyine keeps sying my time will come but when. my friends always get the guys. if i dont give them what they ask for they leave. im always the other girl.
Most Helpful Guy
lets play devils advocate here. when the evil guy says boobs/pussy now this is a stick up. lol see what i did there :) . what do u say to them/him? no? tommorow? when we get married? lol... like what do they say to u and what do u say back? this is actually important. the reason is, is because while the guy should not ask RIGHT away, u should ask the guy to ask fairly quickly. now its up to u to figure out when u THINK u want to if at all. no u put out a COUNTER offer. the guy thinks about it and usually calms down for a while. *we will play long time scenario* after a while the guy will get tired again and be like i want it now... are we there yet? this is round 2 of the deal. u can either try to call his bluff, dangerous because ur testing how much he cares about u vs what ever time u set previously, as he is already claiming he can't wait now. or u can try to work with him on a new deal, or just completely fold and give in there. new deal basically repeats step 1 but its a quicker date than previously so he feels he won something. maybe instead of moving the date up, u guys do a show and tell with some distance between u, that way u can't jump up on each other *this is me with shifty looking eyes on both parties, i know guys and girls get when naked flesh pops out*. there is lots of things u can come up with that is NOT actual sex to appease this annoying lets have sex bull shit that u dont like. if u think a guy only wants sex u won't trust him, if a guy thinks ur not going to give him sex, he's not goign to waste his time on u. SOMEONE has to take the gamble, few years ago relationships use to be a lot more about two people vs now all about one or the other. anyway im sure u got some ideas now go forward grasshoppa and catch a boyfriend :)1
Most Helpful Girl
You might be looking for guys at the wrong places or aren't putting yourself out there enough. I mostly managed to get dates by being social, going out with friends a lot of and through dating apps/sites. If you are finding yourself only getting guys who want sex then it's also a indication you are going for the wrong TYPE of guy.2