If you SO is struggling with anxiety, depression and an eating disorder and does things that they normally wouldn't do and they were in a really bad spot for a few months would you break up with them or help them get better?
- Break up11% (9)10% (7)11% (16)Vote
- Stay and help76% (65)63% (42)70% (107)Vote
- Other13% (11)27% (18)19% (29)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
It depends. Most people will want to say that they would stay and help. But the only reason anyone does anything is for a benefit. If that benefit that you are providing ceases to exist, there's no reason to stay. You also have to measure self-perception. People will think "What kind of person would I be if I left her, just because she's having a rough time." So that plus how annoying she was, how much I cared about her, I would leave or stay, depending on which action would give the most benefit or the least demerit.0
Most Helpful Girl
I'd try and stay with them. I have anxiety myself though so if their mental illnesses start to affect me and make my health worse, then I'm gonna have to look after myself first and if that means at least taking a break from them, I'm gonna have to do that.1