Hello, when a college guy talks to a girl where should he looks at?
Should he looks into her eyes?
Should he looks at her lips?
Should he switch between eyes and lips?
I do wonder what could have the greater impact on the girl, and make her turn on.
Thank you for your contribution ! :)
- Look into her eyes90%(19)82%(33)Vote74%(14)
- Look at her lips5%(1)2%(1)Vote0%(0)
- Look a while into her eyes then switch to her lips quickly0%(0)8%(3)Vote16%(3)
- Look somewhere else / explain0%(0)2%(1)Vote5%(1)
Most Helpful Girl
eyes = shows confidence and interest :)
and feels better or happy/uplifting to talk with someone looking in the eyes1
Most Helpful Guy
I am going to tell you the ultimate Jedi mind trick for dealing not just with women but with people generally. It does require some imagination so you need to practice imagination strengthening exercises.
Always imagine the person you are talking to is an old (if perhaps somewhat formal) friend with whom you have many times exchanged encomiums of mutual admiration. Don't be over-familiar but just be delighted to see them.
If you can imagine this hard enough you will be amazed how often it turns out to become true.1