- I forgive them if they say it won't happen again and show they care and that it was a mistake.2% (1)8% (5)5% (6)Vote
- Unforgivable. Break up with them.60% (28)62% (40)61% (68)Vote
- Depends on the situation.34% (16)28% (18)31% (34)Vote
- Other.4% (2)2% (1)3% (3)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
I'd be angry if we are having problems in our relationship and they try to cover up doing stuff with other people, I don't think I would immediately end the relationship but we would need to talk about what is going on a lot, and likely end it after that. It just makes me mad when someone doesn't communicate.
If our relationship is going very well and I can tell that they genuinely love me and they tell me up front that something happened with someone else, then I would likely be okay with it. It's not the act itself that's bad to me, it's the deception.0
Most Helpful Girl
If someone cheated on me, I would forgive them if they were genuinely sorry... but I would still break up with them.
I think once you've broken the trust at that level, it would be really hard to fully trust them again. Also, if someone is truly in love with you, they wouldn't have the desire to cheat on you in the first place... so I'd just assume we weren't meant to be anyways.
Someone who has the character of a cheater won't magically change just because they got caught. It's either who you are as a person, or you're not that person. Unless this is happening in your youth, a cheater in their mid-late 20's and up isn't really going to change.0