So I was having a fight with my boyfriend like any normal couple but it escalated quickly and I told him to get out of my apartment and I never wanted to see him again. I don't really remember what happened after that exactly except that he hit me. I kicked him out and he's been texting me and showing up at my door with flowers and presents etc. We haven't broken up but we're not talking. I'm not sure if I should break up with him or give him another chance. help!
Most Helpful Guy
You should never be with a man who physically hits you. Never!. If he has done that once, there is every chance he will keep repeating it, the cycle will never stop. The best time to make it stop is right now!.
Hence do what it takes to make this stop!
In fact you are already doing the right thing by removing him from your apartment and not talking to him. The next step I would suggest is officially break up with him once and for all.2
Most Helpful Girl
Sorry to hear that happened to you. I am a strict believer that no one should lay their hands on another person unless for self defence or life threatening situations. You boyfriend was wrong in that manner when he hit you. Not only is it wrong but if you accept his behaviour and invite him back into your life he'll probably do it again. Since that's what abusive assholes do. You have a couple of choices here. Report his ass and leave him. Stay quiet and accept him back (bad choice) or three leave him without reporting him. I can't tell you which is better because you have to choose. But I am repeating myself again.. Laying your hands on someone is never acceptable.