So I know this is usually something guys do more to girls than girls do to guys. But would guys think it's weird if a girl they didn't know randomly messaged him (we are fb friends, just don't know each other) and started up a conversation? (And yes, I am attractive if that matters.) I'm not the type to EVER do this, so I'm pretty nervous about it. But from the things I've seen him post he truly seems to be a great guy that I'd like to get to know better. And just a side note.. two of my friends who are girls have met their boyfriends over a "random" facebook message from a guy they didn't know at all, so I guess it could work! But their guys messaged them first, so I'm worried about it being "weird" coming from a girl first I guess. Have you ever done it before? Success or no?
Also, I have seen him in real life once. Lol I came into his place of work and I thought he looked familiar (and really good looking). I took note of his name tag and then I forgot about him for a while, but added him on fb a few months later..
Just to clarify... it's very obvious that I'm a real person by my facebook profile. Haha, and him and I have mutual friends as well.
Messaging a guy you don't know on Facebook? A little, yes. But if you are looking to get to know him, I suppose it's not too weird. After all, it's the digital version of meeting in person at a 'club', Facebook being the 'club'.