I'm 18 and I never wants kids and will never have them and no I won't change my mind. But I don't know if there's any point of being in a relationship or getting married if your not gonna have kids I mean I would still like to be in a relationship but I don't know if any guy would want that? Also are you supposed to tell the guy you're dating that you don't wanna have kids?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes, you SHOULD tell the guy you're dating that you don't want kids.
I want kids, that's a goal, so dating a woman that doesn't want them would be a complete waste of time, cause eventually I would tell her to have kids and she declining would mean breaking up, so all those years together would have been for nothing.
There are many guys that don't want kids, but you gotta be upfront, don't wast a guy's time if he wants kids and you don't.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well some people get married because the legal document and commitment makes them feel at ease and their life i guess intact. Not everyone does it just to have children, they just want that support system and like marriage, other people will only have children within a marriage, so it's all about what you want. And well I dont think at the beginning however once you get more serious these things will happen, and even before the serious part sometimes it's brought up in question, I usually ask someone i'm dating months in the relationship just to know i'm not potentially wasting my time with someone who i won't be with in the long run.0