I have lost count after 50 guys def not proud of my past. But I was just evaluating myself and why I am the way I am. (Personality wise). What do you think of that number? too little or just right. I mean it can't be two bad since Im 30. Stems from highschool to age 29, as I am no longer sexualy active.
Most Helpful Guy
According to the CDC National Survey of Family Growth, the average LIFETIME number of sexual partners for American women ages 25-44 years is 4.3 partners. Allowing that women tend to underreport we can use the same statistic for men (Figuring that for every heterosexual sexual encounter, one person of each gender participates.) Men report 6.6 average lifetime partners for the same age range. These data are current as of 2013.
You have about 8x more partners than the average woman your age. I still wouldn't call you a slut. I would say that you are very sociosexually unrestricted. Which is to say that you have demonstrated by your history that you can separate sex from love.
About half of the population (men and women) can separate sex from love. Importanly, about half of the population does not make this separation. Since these people (again, men and women) desire the same views and behaviors from a mate as they hold about sex themselves, you would not be well matched with a sociosexually restricted man.
Keep this in mind when seeking a long term relationship. Asserting that a problem shouldn't exist because it would be most convenient if there wasn't one is foolish at best. At worst, it can lay land mines around you as you form a relationship. Risking the loss of years of your time, and possibly even risking a relationship into which children are born just so you can hide from your past is as arrogant as it is foolhardy.
There are men out there who will happily accept a relationship with a woman having your past. Don't make the mistake of choosing a man who can't accept your past.1
Most Helpful Girl
Who cares? It's your body, your choice and your life.. And why should "slutty" be a bad thing? If a guy had slept with 50 people the tables would turn, I doubt have to explain myself here because you all know what I'm talking about. You slept with 50 people so what! You go sister!!2
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