Black women are ugly and mannish. Asian women are sex dolls. Indian men are creepy and smell weird. Middle Eastern men are abusive and violent. (some disgusting stereotypes I've heard thrown around)
Finally, because I am an Asian male, supposedly we have:
Small dicks. Sexless. Aren't real men. Short. Nerdy. Abusive. Workhorses. Socially awkward. Will never be as good as white men. Can never be truly "American", always perceived as a foreigner. Asian women deserve better than Asian guys and should date white guys instead.
This is all the bullshit that has prevented me from getting many dates throughout high school, college, and post-college. It's disgusting. It seems like the dating world glorifies whites, and shames non-whites, especially non-white men. Asian men and black women seem to get the worst of the bunch.
To this day, I still hear this garbage. I dated 3 Asian women who left me for white guys and became self-haters, and spat at me about all the bad stereotypes regarding Asian guys. I dated 2 white women, and people always asked them why they were with me. They were all asked, "isn't his dick small? Isn't the sex terrible?"
These stereotypes are disgusting, NOT true, and are extremely damaging! We're all human! We all need and deserve love! It's 2016, why is the color of our skin such a huge issue when it comes to dating and love?
Because racism and all those who believe in it help carry out an agenda for wealth and power. Whenevr you see a group of people in history being dehumanized it was so the masses would feel better about the atrocities towards other ethnicities and or countries. These beliefs are carried out because people are too stupid to think for themselves and they think just because someone is your parent or grandparent, who tucks you in at night, who feeds you, who told you stories, that every thing they say is true and should be believed with all of their hearts. I truly see implanting racism into a child as a form of mental child abuse. They have hate put into them and their innocence stolen. Most never stop to think just how sick and ill a racist mind set is. Hating someone because they have a different skin color and or features, is not logical and to me is a form of mental illness. If I had a deep hatred for everyone who had a bowl cut and I was even inclined to get violent with them because of it don't you think I would end up in a mental hospital? Racists are some of the biggest slaves around. Still carrying out and continuing agendas that were started centuries ago by "masters" who have been dead for generations, and never stopping to really question the logic in it, it disgusts me, and I applaud all the people who were raised to be that way but resisted it. Stay strong this world is frustrating when you have sense and don't hate people because of their physical features.
I agree with you. I think Hollywood has a lot to do with this way of thinking. You see a lot of this in movies (so it must be true right?) lol. The media somewhat as well. People should know better and probably do, but they don't think or are immature.
Jesus. You know its ironic how everyone "supports" antiracism and feminism etc.. But when it comes down to it no one really supports it down to the core of it unless directly subjected to it. Its a bit more extreme an cruel to connect sexual orientation to race and compatability but u narrows it down quicker i guess. Personally i can't talk much as i spend a lot of time alone in your eyes but thats my take on it
I agree with you... I guess it's unconscious racism? Like... People don't actually realize that they're being racist? I don't know, but I see this all the time, especially on the Internet. I don't know why people have such an issue with people doing things that don't affect them. It's really dumb.
babe, it's okay because it's isolated in the west. i ensure that if you go to china, japan, korea, thailand they will not have shitty stereotypes for Asian males. just find the right crowd of proud Asians in the US and you'll easily fall in love. i'm a black woman and i couldn't give less of a rat's ass what americans think of black women because we're considered beautiful in my country where the stakes aren't default set against us in the dating world.
I believe that society has not matured enough to see past these stereotypes. Of course, it is counter-productive when television, internet, social media, and family values influence a person's every thought, ethic, and action. I'm not saying this applies to everyone, but as a whole, society is too brainwashed (for lack of a better word) to form their own opinions and see past one's exterior. On a much larger scale, everyone is guilty of judging solely based on the exterior every day. That is why I believe one can never say not to judge a book by its cover; it's usually a hypocritical remark.
I think wanting children who look like me is a valid reason to refuse interracial dating. I know it's not politically correct to say things like that, but I don't care. I could never marry interracially because the thought of what my kids would look like is off putting.
I think this might be a bit exaggerated but I see your point. I'd offer up one tip though and say that it might not necessarily be just a person's race but their culture. I think embracing American culture would go a long way and make girls feel a lot more comfortable being around you because you would seem more familiar rather than foreign.
Assuming you're already doing that, being 3rd or 4th generation then maybe you're drawn to racists for some reason. A lot of women these days feel quite entitled to their knight in shining armor, thanks Disney and Feminism, without having to work for it.
Also the somewhat obvious but have you considered that it might be more complex than just race? Maybe you should focus on what you bring to the table as well. Try to make sure you're healthy as you can be, smart, funny, fun, etc. Also try to find new outlets to meet people... maybe a bookstore, or a club, somewhere that you can find people you might get along with.
Source: I'm a white guy and I know and have known a lot of different types of girls, races and etc.
Question for you. Why do people think the whole world's opinion are shaped in white countries. Believe it or not america is a white country so is the uk and France and all the other western nations. Of course they're going think their own people are better. Think white men don't get a hard time in other cultures? Maybe your in the wrong place. If you don't like a roller ride you don't go to the management and demand they rebuild it do you? No you somewhere else till you find one you like. Despite what's said in the popular press and opinions on sites like this the people in power in the west are still conservative and whilst they might shift the posts a little to accommodate different races the core values will still be the same.
It is hard-wired natural instinct to want to mate with one's own kind. Millions of years of natural selection have wired us to be attracted sexually to those who look like us. For the more educated, there is also an understanding and appreciation of history and the biological reality of significant physical and intellectual differences between the races. I find females of other races to range between unattractive and utterly repulsive. I could be marooned on an island with a multitude of females of other races and I would not touch any of them.