I know several where there are more women then men, and they work great!
They are NOT POF (fatties), OKCupid, Ashley Madison (98% fraudulent), or Match. I have never tried eharmony. Match. com used to work well when it was free, a very long time ago.
Of those that work great, a few are aimed at serious marriage objectives. I know two or three couples who met on one of those. I have used them in the past to sleep with women with no intention of marriage, so it depends on the woman. A different site that I still use is not marriage oriented and when I am ready for a new girlfriend, it is my current favorite because they have such high quality of women there and they are not pushing for marriage. I prefer smart, ambitious, and beautiful women and they have plenty. My rule of thumb is that within 14 days I can identify at least two women who I will sleep with, who are of that very high caliber. That is where I found my current girlfriend. She is a nursing student now and did professional modeling when she was a teenager (I didn't know her then).
What are the names of these wonderful sites where it is easy to meet great women? Sorry, I won't tell. If you are smart enough to know what women want in a guy, then you should be able to figure it out.
I think you kind of have to shop around and see what fits for you. Every site has a different feel. As long as you don't offer dick pics in your first message you'll be doing better than half the guys on any site so you have decent odds.
Any site you have to pay to join is going to have more serious minded people. Keep in mind online dating has all the draw backs of normal dating most of the people on line are not for you, just like any group of single people.
No. That's why I don't use them as only the top 20% of men get anything out of it.
Plus the women on dating sites are almost never looking for anything serious. Usually they're either searching for sugar daddies or sex gods to screw around with.
Also, I have never seen one dating site that doesn't have a history of being very easily hackable. This one fucker almost destroyed my computer because he saw me as a threat to his size queen sheep herd.
My advice, if you want to date online, join an online group or forum and meet girls through those.