There's this guy I met from tennis whom I've had a great deal of respect for, and we became friends as we talk about sports and people in tennis a lot. I like him enough to wanna hang out (literally) with him, but I do not think I would like to take this down the romance road for 2 major reasons:
(i) The life reason - I have intentions to move from country to country the shoestring way, and I could tell he isn't into this lifestyle, and I do not want anyone to stop me from doing this
(ii) The shallow reason - Let's just say his physical appearance isn't my "type"
Looks simple enough, but there was one time we had a little misunderstanding which he ignored me for 2 days then came back to apologize. In those two days I was pretty confused and upset - this, I am not sure if it's because I like him, or am I just upset that I had a fight with a friend.
Should I reject this guy? He has told me his intentions to go for more dates by now and made me meet his best buddies :/
Most Helpful Guy
If you plan to move on, I would not even try to spend time with him. He probably does like you and you only want his company. You get what you want, but he doesn't. That isn't fair. Only clean way out of this is to just down play the friendship and sorta let him go and ignore him.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Well you have some valid reasons to reject him. "Shallow" reasons count for more then most people would like to think. If you find yourself less attracted to him for certain reasons, whats the point? Would definitely become a factor later down the road if you found someone you feel is more attractive. Also he's displayed some inconsistent tendencies to ignore you, which is a bad sign. So yea, if you feel comfortable, perhaps its best to reject him.0