I'm biracial (black and white ) . I'm light skin with super curly hair. I have only dated 1 white guy , the rest were black. I want to date a white guy but I always feel like I'm " not good enough " . I feel like they want white girls , straight hair , etc. It makes me feel bad about myself. I feel like I'll never get one and if I do they'll always think I'm " not attractive " or something. I'm completely confident with black guys , and they always give me attention. Once a white guy complimented my hair and flirted with me and I literally was SO awkward. I didn't know how to even act or what to say. I just get so nervous and I have such low self esteem. Help !
Most Helpful Guy
I believe that most men who are straight don't care what a woman's skin tone is and neither should you. Be proud of who you are as a woman, never think of yourself as unattractive. Be confident in your appearance. If you could get the attention of those men that you dated, surely you have gained the attention of over men. Some guys are not readily going to approach a beautiful woman. If you really like someone, just approach him. You are good enough, everyone is good enough, don't sell yourself short.2
Most Helpful Girl
Don't feel awkward or weird. I'm biracial. I'm black and white hispanic #latina, but I date a lot of white guys. My boyfriend is white. He's white asf and a total hipster, which, if we're honest here, is a white thing, lol. Not in a bad way, haha. I take more after my Black side while my sister is more Latina looking. My boyfriend saw me with my natural hair, which is an afro, before we started dating and he still asked me out. He loves my natural hair too.
I always felt like I wasn't good enough or something, but I am better than good enough. Just be yourself. They are the same as black guys except they are a different skin color. No biggie. You have no reason to have low-self esteem. I actually found that white guys were more attracted to me than any other races. Not all of them want a white girl or are only willing to date white girls. Don't put yourself down!2