I met this guy online about 2 weeks ago. For a little over a week now, we've been talking everyday and just getting to know each other. Today he asked if we could Skype any time this week, and though I do want to, because logically for any kind of relationship to form we would have to eventually, I'm super nervous about it. I've never Skyped with anyone I met online, and have always been afraid that I wouldn't live up to their expectations. Especially with him. At the same time, I feel like the longer I wait, the more nervous I will be about it. Not to mention the more time we would have waste if we end up not having any kind of chemistry.
A little bit about us, we have a rather large age difference, but we've gotten along regardless. Problem is, while I do really like him, I know the chances of any kind of relationship surviving between us is slim. We live in different states completely, and generally seem to be different people. Despite that, we still somehow have decent conversations. I just don't know if going through the trouble of getting over my fears will even be worth it in the end..
- Skype with him89% (8)100% (4)92% (12)Vote
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Do it. It may not lead anywhere, but at least you've gotten over your fear and it'll be easier for you in the potential future of having to go through it again.0