Just be comfortable in your body. It's hard to obtain a great looking body. I'm a guy and I still have some belly flab. I don't let it ever hold me back though and I workout like 3-4 days a week still to tone up. It's not a turn off, good job on all the weight loss!
I was fat too... i guess that the problem could be more serious about the health than what the guys think... i lost some weight because I have been told by the doctor that it would have fixed my little issue of lbl. Being fat is one of the cause of light bladder leakage, haven't you ever suffered from it? Well getting slim now has almost fix it, I Don really know why, but it is a lot better now... so I guess you should try harder to lose weight again..