So guys, someone who I just started seeing all of a sudden writes less and "differently". After our last date his work scedule went crazy (working 20 hours one day, 15 another etc)... besides that his dad needed surgery, two days after that his grandma fell and also needes stitches and broke her nose. So besides working he still has to help a lot around his house and go to practice (4 times a week, and 1 hour of gym every day). So I really understand, that he is comunicating less, that is not the question. But I also have the feeling that he is comunicating differntly. Before he was making plans on when we see each other (once skipped his practice just to get together) and now that I am asking him to hang out his answers are really vague... more like "yeah we have to do that... sounds great"..."let's go someday". Is it possible that he just does not want to put a date on things since he does not know if he can actually make it? Or is he not inerested? Another strange thing was that yesterday we talked on the phone and he had to hang up since his dad needed him. He said he would call again but instead I just got a message saying that he will call even later because lots of stuff came up... and then he never called and also did not text anymore. Nothing so far. Is it posible that he is just busy and therefore acting like that or do you think it him loosing interest is more the problem?
- I actually was too busy to get in touch.80% (4)
- Usually then I just was not that interested.20% (1)