i met a guy online- yesterday we were going to meet, but it got really late, and he wanted to come over. I got a bad feeling and it was really strong- so i said we can meet tomorrow. We met today- he seemed nice on the phone but then kept saying that it's better if we go to my house rather than a bar for a beer.
we went to a beer place and ordered one beer each and i had a 5.00 burger. The service was really bad and slow. the total tab was 15.00. We were trying to flag a waitress down and he said he had to smoke, and then left. I was really mad- that he almost forced me to meet him and then ditched me. Also he was 3 hours early, like he just showed up and we never even had a time set. He kept saying he wasn't psycho and was a nice guy- i didn't get any reason to think he was a jerk, but that gut feeling was so strong it was weird.
I was angry through text asking him why he'd almost guilt a girl into meeting him then ditch her so rudely, leaving her with the tab. He was such a creep- he didn't care and he just wanted to 'upset me' and get a reaction out of me- some kind of narcissist or psychopath. What kind of freak is this and is he crazy or what is wrong with him. What bothers me is that, im a really nice person- i treat people with respect, esp if I think they're good people. I don't get why after he saw that I was real, and nice, he literally treated me like crap and did this to me.
why are freaks like this, so mean and abusive to the nicest women- and they do the meanest things just to be psycho and get u angry and disrespect you? I've had other 'psychos' online do similar- sometimes meet me then act REALLY weird rude and crazy. im a pretty girl- and I think they partly do this b/c im pretty and they're crazy idiots. Why would males be purposely so mean/cruel to a nice girl who is kind i dont get it
i'm sorry to hear about all your bad experience you have had trying to find a worthy guy who deserves to be with you. just dont give up, one day you will find him or he will find you. P. S i'm just glad you listened to your instinct when it came to that guy.
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Glad you didn't go to his house seems like a creep ! I think he acted the way he did because he wanted to get layed and since he didn't get that he's just aggrivated.
"i met a guy online- yesterday we were going to meet, but it got really late, and he wanted to come over. I got a bad feeling and it was really strong- so i said we can meet tomorrow. We met today- he seemed nice on the phone but then kept saying that it's better if we go to my house rather than a bar.
Yeah, he was going to rape you!!! And you kept getting bad feelings!! Come on, girl friend.
hmm I always wonder how I would be if I dated a girl like how would act people say I don't have a girlfriend but if I did she'd be the happiest. but I don't know maybe he was upset he / you didn't come to his house for sexual reasons as I think any guy would come to the conclusion of. but who knows maybe he was psycho social