i said the words "te amo" to someone i am not really sure i love, i know i care for her so much, and i honestly do love her, but when she starts to speak about putting money together on a bank, having kids, getting married.. its hard to not feel nervous..
i am 28yo and she is 23yo, we have been together for about 10 months, and i know her for a year or so..
should i feel bad for this? i feel that she is more in love than i do?
i feel awful, all she talks about is when we grow older and im feeling all weird.. please help, i think im hurting this person so much and im scared.
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Yes. And if you believe that your feelings will never catch up to hers you should let her go. What is the point of wasting each others time? She can move on and find what she is looking for and so can you. I am kidding, you aren't a bad person, a lot of people do that because it is easier but it is time to just be mature and bite the bullet if it is not going to go anywhere. What favors are you doing for the future?1