So my guy friend goes through the girls so fast, it's crazy. We're in highschool and he's on his fourth in the last 10 months.
He's a bit of an asshole to say the least, and I don't understand what the appeal is, and how so many girls want to date him?
There are so many nice guys and girls out there that are interested in dating but don't get asked or whatever for whatever reason, and I just can't figure out how a mediocre (in all genuine, brutal honesty) can have so much interest from the opposite sex while nice people get left behind (or so it seems).
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Well, he's yr friend, right? So, SOMETHING must have SOME kind of appeal about him... I mean, you did explicitly introduce him as "[your] guy friend". Not "some asshole rando".
What's the basis of yr friendship?
And/or, are you next in line (or you really want to be), and kinda trying to deny it?
I suspect that this ^^ might be the case.
Brutal honesty moment, girl. Is yr "friendship" really just a platonic friendship? Or, are you kinda getting sucked into that same vortex?
I mean, that IS a thing, ya know... just the fact that other girls are interested, can actually perpetuate itself after a while.
Like, say yr standing on a corner, and a few people look up. Well, obviously, you'll look up, too, right? And so will everyone else... until you have hundreds of people looking up at NOTHING AT ALL, just because a few rando's decided to start that.
In lots of these scenarios, THAT explains part of the appeal -- it's just a weirdo chain reaction, where some girls were interested (for some stupid-ass reasons), and then other girls became interested because THOSE girls were interested... and then the cycle became a cycle.
There's probably some real reason beyond that, but, you'd be surprised how powerful that effect can be.
Aaaaaanyway, back to you.
Platonic friendship yeah?
Or, are YOU weirdly intrigued, just like the other girls?
There's no "correct answer" to that. I mean, if you ARE weirdly intrigued by him, it shouldn't be that hard for you to take the upper hand away from him, if you like playing fun games with boys.2
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