We just recently started dating and I won't lie, he is a very good catch. It's not that he is just adorable and handsome, but he has unusual styling (that I love!) which makes him very presentable. Every time we go out, either a bar or just a walk, girls are constantly checking him out! They smile at him and they wave to him and they even sometimes send him a kiss! I notice it every time. And he does too, I mean of course he is when they are not even trying to hide it. His reactions to them are numb though, his eyes are only me which is good, but I still have this unease feeling whenever it happenes. Yesterday we were sitting on the bench and aa group of girls were sitting next to us on another bench and I could hear them talking about how cute he is. One of them was constantly turning around smiling. I seriously wanted to go to her and ask her to stop, but instead I started making out with him. I don't know, I got jealous and I wanted to show them that he is mine. In a way it felt good lol. I never had something like this before, it's usually guys cheking me out. But guys don't do that when I'm with someone else, while girls don't give a shit if a guy is with a girlfriend. Arghh! :( This wasn't really a question though, just needed to vent out I guess. Maybe someone with similar experience?
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I am not sure if I have noticed girls gawking or throwing themselves at the guy I am with but I would definitely not appreciate that. Of course you cannot help but feel uneasy. I have some trust issues though, so it is hard enough trusting a guy I think is super attractive and I know gets attention from other girls much less seeing these girls throw themselves at him. Even so, you can't act crazy either, I think doing what you did is perfectly acceptable, it is not psycho jealousy, but a subtle, he's mine! And you are right, you could never ever stop girls from doing that, as long as he doesn't do anything about it, that is all that matters.1