How's this for my new outlook on dating?
I don't have any patience for games. Either you are sexually attracted to me or you're not. I would wait for a virgin woman to be comfortable, but there are so few of them at my age that it's a non-issue.
No more "you're a nice guy, so I want to take it slow." That basically states that there is no attraction, and you are wasting my time and yours.
I'm not setting a timeline, but if there is no blatantly obvious chemistry, then I will respectfully move on. I want a deep, long term relationship. No one night stands. BUT, I'm not going to be played for a fool.
Most Helpful Girl
Well I think that if someone is going to see you after the first and potentially second date, then they're attracted to you and interested in you. I think it's just knowing what you both want and not to waste each others time by playing games.1
Most Helpful Guy
Absolutely. Basically expect to be fooling around by date 2-3. Intercourse is less of a rush if she wants to take her time on that. But if she's not touching your dick fast, assume she doesn't like you, move on.
If she really likes you but wants to move slower, she's free to open her mouth and explain that and you can judge it case by case.
But baseline assumption, don't emotionally invest if she isn't touching your dick.0