I've been dating my girlfriend for a year now she is 28 and I am 25. At her age she still likes to party hard drink go to clubs and looks for destination party places like Ibiza and Mexico for trips to party. Question is, is she too old to still have this mentality? She's almost 29 and I'm even past that stage and I'm younger, am I overthinking it or is this normal?
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Most Helpful Girl
Right adfwr I turned 26 I was at work one morning and one of my friends was 2 hours late and then threw up randomly because he was so hung over. Then I realized that this is how a lot of my friends were at that time and I was over it. I had just bought a big screen TV so I just stayed home and rented movies mostly. I still went out when someone asked me most of the time, but I quit actively making an effort to hang out with these people. Eventually I stopped going out altogether. Sometimes I miss it, but I am too old for that now and my life is much more rewarding now.
I would say mid-20's is a good time to stop.0
Most Helpful Guy
It's normal for her and she probably won't change or settle down until after she hits 30.
I wouldn't overthink it because what will probably happen is this:
You'll grow bored and increasingly turned off by the hot/crazy party chick and regular, smart, everyday girls who hate clubs will suddenly become SUPER attractive to you.
I went through this a couple of times and when you find the right girl (non-partyer, Netflix and chill type), you'll actually experience real happiness.
Sidenote: Just saw a "hot" club girl I dated ten years ago and she looks like she's 50 (boozing it up constantly does not age anyone well).0