My girlfriend is all of a sudden mad because last night i was with a girl for a presentation and i stayed until 10:30. We didn't do anything bad at all, literally got a pizza and did 15 slides for out powerpoint. Now i did not tell my girlfriend this. She asked me what i was doing last nmight cause i didn't call her back and now we got into an argument cause she says that i'm not suppose to be with a girl late at night like this.
I had the same issue. My boyfriend has 3 female friends. He went to have drinks at a pub with one of them after work, he usually will once or twice a month. Now I believe men and women can have opposite sex friends. I do have a problem with going out late like that, he thinks its okay because he has 5 older sisters and gets along with women more than men that's what he's been raised with.. but since im not married to my boyfriend (yet) and ur girl isn't married to you, none of us can tell the other who to hang with, we just have to trust them. He knows im not used to it and he knows i will leave him in 1 second if he cheats and its his job to keep my trust like I do with his.. so he willingly (he came up with this) calls me before and or during his hangouts to make sure im okay with it and to make me feel more comforteble, he even said if i feel extra worried or bothered by it one night, he will cancel and come straight home. We have compromised and thats how it should be.
I won't tell him to cut his long time friends to the curb, and he wants to make me feel more comfortable and to show he understands. You should do the same! As long as you arnt doing anything to lose your girls trust, and if this girl your hanging with tries anything your willing to stop her immediately then your fine. And ur working on a project /assignment im guessing? You are more than okay for doing that. But tell your girl anything that has to do with another girl, dont hide it.. its a sign of respect and shows you care about her feelings.
But if your girlfriend has trust you, how long you spent with the girl should not make a difference. Unfortunately, her insecurities are speaking far louder than the situation itself. She has no trust in you because she has trust issues.
Well you should have been honest with her instead of lying about what you did. You should have just answered her call and told her you were working on a project with your partner and you would call her when you were done, or something like that.