I have been single for six years. I am not looking, so why isn't it finding me? I know, so poetic... but it's true. They say when you aren't looking. I haven't looked in a while. I want to meet a good guy. All my exes treated me like total SHIT. Im finally ready to meet a good guy and I want love. I miss being in love.
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In the process of "not looking," are you also isolating yourself? I think "not looking" only works as long as you are still social and putting yourself out there. Preferably more than once a week. It means getting together with friends and going out, keeping contacts around yiy, going to those football parties and cook outs where you can meet new people. But not going and talking to every single guy or talking about your loneliness. You just ho, and talk to people, try to get to know some new people to make more connections, and then if a love happens, great!1