I know he has a preference but this really hurts me, like a lot cause I'm the opposite I'm a pear shaped girl and never liked it... he even told me that he does not like big butts or big boobs but say I'm good but I don't feel good, he even once told me that some blondes are prettier than me when I sked him. .. we dated for 3 years I used to feel great but not anymore..
when we first dated I knew he had a preference but it was cool cause I felt he liked me but not anymore sand I feel soo jealous and super insecure when I see a blonde petite girl I feel so fuckin shitty especially when I see him comment on other girls bodies telling them that they are hot and gorgeous causes they are petite...
he say I'm the only one he wants and say I'm perfect but I don't feel it, I just wish I was the only thing he prefers cause his preference makes me feel soo uncomfortable!
Most Helpful Guy
Time to move on. After three years, you've got Stockholm syndrome. Get out. He'll try and get you back, he's become accustomed to having you to kick around to make himself feel better. Have the self respect to say no and walk away.
It's going to hurt. Spend time alone (not alone, you can be with friends, just be single) and find yourself. After three years in a relationship, especially one filled with deprecation, you need to rebuild your sense of self.
He'll probably contact you periodically to try and get back together. Just tell him you don't think that's a good idea. Because it isn't.
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Most Helpful Girl
Insecurities will destroy your relationship. If he did not want to be with you he would have left. Maybe talk to him about how you are feeling and just ask him not to comment on other girls while you are around because it makes you insecure. Also never ever ask him about other girls because knowing what he thinks of them is none of your business. You will have to take some time to work on your self confidence. He is obviously with you for a reason, so you have to believe that you are attractive, you might not be what he is usually initially attracted to but you are his type as well.2
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