Or involuntarily a virgin at that, or invuluntarily intimate with a person in general.
I, for one, have been involuntarily a virgin, and involuntarily single my entire life. Every time I go to a family reunion, I always get asked "Why I am single." When I tell my family members it's not by choice, they say "Oh, come on", and some people are shocked, because they know I'm not picky. I agree-I'm probably the least pickiest person I know, but that doesn't mean I'm single by choice. Is it really that hard to believe someone can continuously be rejected by possible dating encounters their entire life?
I'm not just speaking for myself. I see it all over Facebook, internet forums, and it's quite frustrating people think that anyone can just get anyone. For some people, it is significantly difficult to find just one person to be in a relationship with.
Most Helpful Girl
People who have dates all the time or can get sex whenever they want it will never understand how anyone could be involuntarily single or a virgin, because apparently it comes easy to them. I was single most of my life while I watched my best friend jump from relationship to relationship without seemingly giving two fucks. She never understood, just like I never understood how she could move on so fast, after claiming to love each and every person she dated. I am in a loving relationship now, but this is my first in 8 years.2
Most Helpful Guy
They are being nice and basically saying that you would be a catch for a lot of people.0