So here's the deal, I turn 24 in July this year (still a few months away), and I've never had a boyfriend. I don't like telling people about it much, cause I'm so worried about what people will say/think of me. I'm not entirely sure why, though many different reason have run through my head. Even though I'm fairly normal looking (I think anyways!), I feel as though no one actually wants me, like at all. The last time I went on a date was over three and a half years ago (pretty sure I'd be the most awkward person on earth on a date now!), and haven't kissed a guy in close to three years. Being this age and never had anyone, especially considering people my age and younger are married with kids, makes me feel as though I've done something wrong, and that I'm not wanted. I know this might make me appear jealous, but that couldn't be further from the truth. I can't talk to mum about it, cause she just says I'm being jealous, so I tend to shut off and keep everything to myself. I finish my degree in about three weeks, and I haven't had any fee time of late, so to have made it through university and still never had anyone is somewhat embarrassing. On the outside I'm fine, but inside I'm falling apart. At this rate, I'm destined to be a crazy cat lady (even though I don't like cats!). I just don't know what to do anymore...😪
Most Helpful Guy
You know o am just like you.. Never had a girlfriend and I am 24 too... But the funny thing is it didn't even bother me a little... Most of my friends are married too and my best friend haa girlfriend and they seem happy... But Me on the other part I just don't give a fuck..
And no you are not a freak..!
But yeaa sometimes it bothers me too... And sometimes I get jealous when I see a couple...
But hey you are at least dating... I am not even trying to get a date!!! Lol maybe if I did I know I could get a girlfriend0
Most Helpful Girl
I've dated a lot of guys in the last 3 years and I've been in 4 relationships so far. All of them SUCKED except for the one I'm in now. I'm 18. I would rather have been single all that time than dated. You're not a freak at all and whether you wanted to be single during that time and even now, I would never call that a bad thing. Don't feel like anything is wrong with you. Being a crazy cat lady isn't so bad! Lol, I'm destined to be one whether I have a husband in the future or not. I'm already crazy and already have 3 cats (so far).
Don't be embarrassed about never having had a boyfriend. It's nothing to be ashamed of. Just keep doing what you're doing. Put yourself out there a little more maybe? Continue to be yourself of course. Don't think about what others are doing. Just think about what you are doing. They don't matter. It's how you feel that does.