I've barely started texting a guy I met 2 almost 3 weeks ago online. I thought nothing of it because I was just asking for advice on a job i was being offered. After a bit of talking and information shared I realized that he works in my town and that he goes to the place that offered me a job a lot. After 4 days he invited me to hang out with him and his friends but I couldn't go. He said we'd reschedule. And when it came to the day I was free, something happened with his family so he rain checked. I've been giving him his space to cope with everything and he said he would text me when he felt less depressed. I checked in with him today since it's been 2 weeks since we spoke and he told me that it was harder to cope than he expected. I was glad he actually responded. So I told him that if he needed anything I was there for him. I feel like it was weird to tell him that since we barely know each other.
I don't know but I like this guy. I don't know what he looks like but I feel an attraction to him. Is it weird to feel like this so soon?
Most Helpful Guy
It's really not a good idea to develop attraction for someone based on their personality as experienced via messages, and even via phone calls.
You need to meet up with him, get a sense of him in person ASAP. To avoid hurting possibly two people.
Here is why:
o If he is hot to you, but he meets you and isn't into you.. that's gonna hurt bad.
o If he's NOT hot, and your already developing feelings.. your going to try to like him. You might.. or you might end up resenting having to TRY to like him when you meet a guy you actually find real hot.
Your best bet is to meet up, get a sense of him. Then see how things develop from there
Most Helpful Girl
It's not weird, it's normal.1