High school sweet heart who is 10,000 miles away who wants you to move in with him. You know exactly who he is and know his family as well. He is responsible, intelligent, sweet, honest, caring guy. But he's not a phone person and usually doesn't call back the same day (not just you, but to everybody). You keep in contact with him through AIM about 4-5 times a week but only 1-2 times on the phone. He's coming back to get you to move with him in 2 months
OR, a guy who you just met not too long ago(have worked with him for 7 months) who is just 2 hours away in college will be graduating in 2 years. He has gorgeous tanned skin with blonde curls and beautiful blue eyes. He's parents own a golf course. He is willing to travel 1-2 times in 2 weeks to see you. He SEEMS like a sweet, honest person. You guys definitely have chemistry together.
Stay where you are and take a chance with him? Or take a chance to see the different side of the world and move with your high school sweetheart?
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Are you crazy? I would definitely go with my high school sweetheart if he was like the guy you described. He sounds amazing. I know taking a chance with the semi-unknown is really appealing, but I think you would probably end up regretting giving up your chance to be with your high school sweetheart in the long run. For me, the "What if?" and "What would have happened?" questions would be way worse down the road if I didn't go with that wonderful guy.1