Most Helpful Guy
Bringing up that you are a feminist. Very few guys want to date a woman that believes the men in our society are so sexist against women, that you need a special group to protect yourselves from us. This shows the woman has huge issues with men. Think about how most women feel about men's rights activists, especially if it is such a big deal that he feels the need to bring that up right away, almost like he is challenging her to question it.
Getting on to us, or correcting our behavior. Even on a first date women often get on to us for some joke we make, or try to correct us on the way we do something. A woman that is that controlling on a first date will eat the guy alive in a relationship.
Talking about how important traits are to you, that we clearly don't have. I think a lot of women do this as a way to brag to show off to the guy. They guys instead just assumes she is talking down to him.
Being overly shy. I know guys tell women we like shy girls, but the body language of a shy person, and the body language of a person that doesn't like us is often the same. They both give us the feeling that she doesn't want to be near us.
Not putting any effort into our dates. Making us do all the work, where you just show up and look pretty, can make it feel like we are the only ones even trying.
Being boring. I know lots of girls that have flat out told me they don't have any hobbies. These women typically turn causing drama into their hobby.
Blaming all past relationship failures on the men. If you think nothing was ever your fault in your past relationships, then chances are you aren't correcting your problem, and he will end up being the next guy that you are talking shit about.
Talking about the types of people you don't like. Without meaning to you can actually say how much you dislike the guy, just because you don't know him that well. I actually had a woman tell me that she liked the fact I would never date a black woman. I don't know where she got that idea, but despite the fact I have very fair skin, I have a black person in my family tree so I am part black. I found her comment to be very offensive.
Not appreciating the type of date that he takes you on. It is a lot harder to plan a date than most women seem to realize. We don't always know what you like yet, and have to try and balance your likes with also being able to find a place where we can actually talk and get to know each other. That cuts into creativity.2